The eponymous grandmother in question would be my paternal grandmother, who for as long as I can remember has been justly well-known for making this chocolate cake for every occasion. The recipe is thus intertwined with basically all my childhood memories of family holidays and trips to visit my grandparents – who lived in Milwaukee for much of my childhood. My copy of the recipe is on a rather yellowed recipe card in my mom’s handwriting. And today (at Carolyn’s request), you’ll all be welcomed into this family tradition!
I’ll walk you through the recipe first and then discuss some of the (very minor) controversies. They’re nothing on the scale of Rufener’s versus Szalay’s, but there are choices to be made, nonetheless.
For the cake:
In a small bowl, combine 1 t. soda with 1 3/4 cups flour (less 2 1/2 T.)
Also, prepare 1 c. sour milk
In another bowl, blend together the following ingredients:
1/2 cup shortening
1 1/4 cups sugar
1/2 t. salt
1 t. vanilla
Add: 2 packets Nestle ChocoBake
Alternately add the flour mixture with the milk.
Pour into a greased 9×13 pan and bake at 350 for 30-35 minutes, until a toothpick comes out clean and the cake appears set.
For the frosting, mix the following:
1/2 cup shortening
2 packets Chocobake
1/4 t. salt
1 t. vanilla
Alternately add 3-4 cups of powdered sugar and 3-6 T. milk.
Spread on cooled cake.
That’s it. Easy enough, right? I’m pretty sure grandma now practically does it in her sleep, and I know for a fact that she can squeeze in the work between hands of pinochle, whist, or whatever is the card game of the moment!
A few notes:
1. Everyone sours the milk differently. I use about a teaspoon of white vinegar, add milk to the measuring cup to the one cup mark, and let the milk sit while I blend the first ingredients. Others use lemon juice. Some people measure the acid, some just toss it in. Some use a full cup of milk and then add acid to that. Some insist on letting it sit longer. It doesn’t affect the flavor much, but you can’t skip souring it in some way! I’m not a food scientist, but I believe it’s necessary to provide acid for the baking soda. anyone want to back me up here?
2. Some people have been known to use butter in place of shortening. Or half butter, half shortening. Or butter-flavored shortening. Personally, I think shortening is the only way to go. Alter it at your own risk!
3. The flour measurement is goofy. Just go with it.
4. Chocobake is the easiest way to introduce the chocolate. You could melt squares or something else fancy, but why bother? Just skulk around the baking aisle at the grocery store to find their two boxes of Chocobake tucked away near the chocolate chips. One box is enough for two cakes, and God help us all if Nestle ever stops making it!
5. Speaking of chocolate chips, I’ve sprinkled some into the batter tonight. (Hopefully no family member gasps at this alteration.) I don’t know that it made much difference – perhaps it was a bit fudgier. Depending on your taste buds, you could probably explore adding nuts or peanut butter chips or any number of little additions. Why not? Make it your own.
6. Finally, the biggest controversies of all are the proper amount of frosting and the ratio of powdered sugar to milk in that frosting. With the original recipe being so flexible, you must make a decision here! I absolutely insist that every half cup of powdered sugar requires a tablespoon of milk, and I usually make LOTS of frosting and beat it in the mixer until it’s super light and fluffy. That means that I use 4 cups of powdered sugar and about 8 tablespoons of milk. (You’ll notice that my choices lie just outside the original parameters of the recipe.) My mother tends toward 3 1/2 cups and 6 tablespoons, and grandma makes an ever stiffer frosting, at the low end of the milk range. Of course, she doesn’t measure it at all, but just eyeballs the whole process. She also tends to spread it a bit thinner than I do. You can’t go wrong, really, but they are all slightly different cakes in the end. The stiffer frosting does probably cut and serve a bit better, making for prettier presentation. But let’s face it, you’re not making this cake for the fancy presentation or to impress anyone. You’re making it so you can lean over the sink with a fork at midnight. And breakfast. And noon…
The real danger is that you’ll make the cake too often now that you have the recipe. It’s important to have a plan to rid yourself of it quickly. Thankfully, I was able to give away the vast majority of the cake tonight. (Note to GP: If you don’t get cake, it’s because Kim and Carolyn ate it all!) So welcome to the family tradition; I hope you enjoy!